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It has been a tremendous honor to assist families as they gather with friends to remember and celebrate the life of a loved one who has died.  It has been said that we don’t remember days so much as we remember the dear and precious moments we shared with someone we love.  Memorial gatherings give us the opportunity to remember, honor, and give thanks for another person who has touched our life.  It is also an important time to grieve, together.

 

 

Read text from the
Memorial Gathering for
Nick Macca Savage

Blest Are the Sorrowing: They Shall Be Consoled

 

And what does it mean to mourn? I asked the multitude.

And an old woman stepped forward.

           

To mourn, she said, is to be given a second heart.

It is to care to deeply

that you show your ache in person.

 

To mourn is to be unashamed of tears.

It is to be healed

and broken

and built-up

all in the same moment.

 

Blessed are you if you can minister to others

with a heart that feels

with a heart that hurts

with a heart that loves

and blessed are you if you can minister to others

with a heart that serves

and a heart that sees the need before it’s spoken…

 

It is to be full of the willingness

of forever reaching out to

and picking up

and holding carefully

those who hurt.

 

To mourn is to sing with the dying

and to be healed

by the song

and the death.

 

Adapted from Season of Your Heart by Macrina Wiederkehr, OSB

 


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